Social Media and Teenagers — a Talking Points lesson plan for English reading and speaking

Social Media has been with us for many years now. It is a part of our life.

But now we find that social media is the cause of problems – particularly among younger people. Teenagers and people in their twenties seem to be fixated on social media. There are questions raised of it causing issues for these people.

This is the most perfect topic to raise in an English or ESL class. Most teachers are faced with a classroom of students who were all brought up in the age of social media. This topic can create a ton of discussion and debate about a topic that the students often feel very strongly about.

In this lesson, there is a 500-word article followed by a table of essential vocabulary and a list of discussion questions.

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Give some examples of social media.

Which ones are good and provide a useful service? Which ones are not so useful and maybe unhealthy?

In your country, is there a problem with teenagers using social media too much?




Social media has become a keystone in our daily lives. Not a day goes by when most people do not check their updates on social media platforms such as Facebook or Instagram.

And for teenagers, this is even truer.

They cannot go one day without any of their preferred social media apps. Look at any teenager on the street, on a bus or simply idling time waiting for a friend and you will see them with their head down facing the screen of their smartphone

Teenagers have always had secrets. Long before social media, teenagers liked to chat with their friends after school, catching up on all the news and gossip going on in their circle of friends. All the juicy details kept far away from the ears of their parents.

Teenagers kept diaries and journals — little notebooks where they wrote their darkest secrets and thoughts and stored them in private places. Under their beds, on top of a wardrobe. Somewhere where their mothers would not find them.

But now social media allows teenagers to chat with their friends all the time. They no longer have to wait until after school and gather at the school gates to catch up on the latest piece of news.

They can write their deepest and darkest thoughts on social media apps, share them with select groups of people, and not have to worry if these thoughts can be discovered by one of their parents.

Phone passwords or hidden folders on their phones can hide the apps away from the prying eyes of grown-ups.

There are benefits to social media for teenagers. It can help them practice and improve their social skills. This can help them later in life when they join the workforce and for life as an adult.

It can help them maintain better relationships with their friends. What parent doesn’t want that for their own children? The thought of their own son or daughter being alone and isolated is not something to bear.

They can also learn about current affairs. Every parent wants their child to be up-to-date with the news and what is going on in the world.

But then there are the downsides to social media and teenagers.

Despite being always connected, always communicating, many teenagers are spending large amounts of time alone. They are chatting with their friends, updating their social status, but all alone in their room with no one else around them. Just them and their phone.

Then there are the risks of their reputation being tarnished through immature games or the spreading of rumours.

A harmless photograph is sent around and within minutes a teenager can become a laughingstock — or worse.

There are now reports of several teenagers committing suicide or suffering from depression. Certain images or messages circulated around that are not suitable for a young mind.

Girls gaze at the perfect bodies of Instagram influencers and then have negative opinions of their own bodies.

If fashion magazines were not bad enough many years ago, social media presents a far more sinister threat.

And of course, the social media giants like Facebook and Instagram shirk all responsibility. They wash their hands of any blame.


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Essential Vocabulary





idling time




catching up


juicy details



darkest secrets






prying eyes



social skills




to bear

current affairs



social status








committing suicide

suffering from depression









wash their hands


Write down all the words and phrases in your vocabulary notebook. Look in your dictionary and find the meaning of each word. Write the definition next to each word.

Then make up your own sentences using each word or phrase.

For example:

Notebook—a small book with pages of blank paper that students use to make notes when studying.

“I left my notebook at home so I was unable to make any notes in my English class.”




  1. What social media platforms are popular in your country? Why are they popular? Which ones do you use?
  1. Are teenagers obsessed with social media as the article says? Why are they?
  1. What other benefits can you think of for social media? Is there a real need for social media in modern society?
  1. Is it a good idea that teenagers can communicate with their friends 24-hours a day? Why?
  1. What other downsides can you think of for social media? What can be done about it?
  1. How can a teenager’s reputation be at risk through social media? If you have any examples, tell the class.
  1. Should social media platforms hold more responsibility towards the effect they have on teenagers’ lives? What should they do?
  1. What do you think of the influencers on social media? Is this acceptable or not? Tell your reasons to the class.
  1. Should parents have access to their children’s social media accounts? Why/why not? At what age should a child’s social media account be entirely private? Why do you think this?
  1. What is the future of social media? Do you think there will be a big change in the next few years?


Teacher’s Notes


This topic is so well-known it may need no introduction at all.

Most parents of the world worry about their teenage son or daughter using social media too often. The reading covers issues that are related to suicide and mental health—I will leave it to your discretion whether to talk about this topic in class.


How was it? Was this lesson useful in your class? Please let me know in the comments below!


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2 thoughts on “Social Media and Teenagers — a Talking Points lesson plan for English reading and speaking”

  1. Excellent topic. It is hard to find a young person (or older person) nowadays that is not involved in social media of some sort. I mostly worry about two forms of damage:

    HEALTH: how does constant use of the phone or computer impact the brain?

    DANGER: I personally have friends whose 12 year old son committed suicide because of being bullied publicly on social media.

    A young person often doesn’t have enough discernment and life experience to overcome the damage careless comments can make. Generally I prefer quality social life and sports to an excess of social media, not to mention social media can be an ‘addiction’, which is a real worry.

    1. That is terrible about your friend’s son. I have read so many negative things about the impact of social media on young people’s mental health. There must be some responsibility held by the platforms that host these sites.

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